Marriage problem in the Arab world

Marriage in the Arab world is all about the groom financial status, because he will pay the dowry, bridal dress, house, jewelries and gold..etc. it depends on how he will manage it. Marriage have been relying on how can the groom afford to have a bride! Which sounds material and ancient to me! Why we value the marriage with money and wealth rather than, looking at the whole thing as an experience, a new shared lives with adventures, an integration of two worlds. Why don’t we look in similarities between  ourselves like shared interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Looking into ourselves, our needs from a relationship, priorities to build a rapport between each other as to have a raw communication with one  another in a friendly manner. Through communication, we find if you are compatible with me, the one who can absorb my ugly side as value my bright side as well. In our world as Arabs, unfortunately we are avoiding good conversation with each other, we are underestimating the power of communication and having some time for each other. We don’t agree on deals or even plan for life, despite holding good intentions for one another. We nurtured with the conservative culture type which is against expressing love and gratitude. This message is for fresh starters, to live with open mentality and have a good relationship.

Random Thought

I am bored of being human, bored of humanity, and anything reminds me of being a human. Why I am a human being, why I didn’t wake up into this world to find myself a molecule in the air or a green plant. Sometimes I say to myself the benefit of the air we’re breathing is better the benefit of us, or I’d rather say me. Our humanity brought for us wars, destructions, inferiority, anxiety and many other troubles with every shared benefit of its creation. Technology brought us advanced weapons as excellent medications, shattered hearts as connected strangers, so technology is a weapon with wonders. As humans we had our natural resources to use it against each other rather than to help one another. We had it show off what we assume ‘’our properties’’.  While wealthy is living with the fear of diminishing the wealth realm, seeking new opportunities from the poor. The last one is getting poorer. We forgot that there might be no tomorrow, no more wakes up. We are living in an illusion, a so called modern life. We are wearing a mask of makeup, plastic surgeries getting shallow at the surface, focusing on the unnecessary.  Losing the essence which makes us good humans. Losing feelings, emotions

I wish I was part of the air of I could, a lighter than light particle. Invisible thing, that creatures are unaware of it’s benefit, a more than tiny being which can travel seamlessly and renew itself. Simple living, instead of a complex living with side effects and issues.